my dad gets angry over every thing. to put it simply. to go into detail...
our house is a huge mess for many reasons. 1) we just got home from christmas vaction and have not had time to unpack. 2) there are 6 people living in an 1100 sqft house, and at LEAST1/2 of that is taken up by bookcases, boxes, frunture, and just %26quot;stuff%26quot;. and 3) we have NO money AT ALL.
he has a deadbeat job that makes him work long hours for next to no pay, and he wont even look for a better job. (he teaches at the stinkin%26#039; community college) he has 2 master%26#039;s degrees in math, i am sure that if he looked SOMEONE would hire him and pay him better.
we fight all the time because he will not let me drive untill i am 18, because his parents made him wait. so i cannot get a jobbecause we live in the smallest town posable and the unemployment rate here is VERY high, with so many adults looking for jobs it is like imposable for me to find one. i am sick of my dad being angry all the time about things he wont even
What can I do about my dad? he is always angry about something, and is always %26quot;right%26quot; in his own eyes?student finance
just save up money and try to move out asap. go to a good college and make something of your self. keep looking for a job, maby you will find one.
What can I do about my dad? he is always angry about something, and is always %26quot;right%26quot; in his own eyes? loan
be patient. perhaps your dad is frustrated about something. maybe if you can talk to him seriously about what is ailing him. if you are still studying, study well so that you can find a better job later. if you are desperate for a job, why not talk to your teachers, friends. maybe they can help you find a job so that you can earn your own keep. good luck.|||this sounds SO familiar, maybe because my dad is the same way! but honestly it%26#039;s all up to your dad about changing. which some people just never will...i%26#039;ve come to that about my dad. so i just let it be...try to block him out the best you can.|||Same as my dad! Anyhow, i never fight with him not because i have no guts....solely because he is my dad.|||You and your dad sound overwhelmed. He has alot of responsibilities, and from your question, so do you. Neither of you has a %26quot;peaceful%26quot; place to escape( your home). Your dad uses the computer, you have no escape. Can you create a clean and uncluttered area of the house where either one of you can go to sort of escape?|||After what I would like to say to you I am not sure you will understand that I am ON YOUR SIDE.
At 16 you should NOT know how much your father makes.
With that many people in the house your father should not have to do anything. Yes, that is the way things are. Fathers work and come home and either sit in front of the tv or in your case the computer.
At 16 I can understand that you do not understand that your father is mad for prob a very good reason. He makes not enough money and is in a job he may not like. He can%26#039;t yell at his boss so it gets to be his family that gets the butt of it. sorry.
And YES YOU HAVE MONEY. If you (your family) did not then would you guys still being living in your house.?
I use to know a guy that would ride a bike to work everyday. That was about 1 mile to and from work everyday. So there is a way for you to get a job.
Of course your father will never listen to you, your 16 and in his eyes you are and always will be a little girl. Thats just the way it is.
The only suggestion I can make to you is if you are truly unhappy then do what you have to do to get out of his house.
Try to find jobs in your town or neighboorhood. Clean houses, baby sit, do yard work. Sit with little old lady/men. Walk dogs. Some thing where you can walk to.
Do good in school so you can go off someplace to college and stay in a dorm. Remember you do not need you parents permission to go to college, even if they do not want to pay for it or can%26#039;t. You can still go, there are programs out there that will help pay for it.
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